Why do I get flak for not being attracted to White girls?

Revamp said:

So if I don't date males and only date females, that "academically" makes me a sexist. Great.

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akhilpuri said:

This seems a bit weird to me. I think down inside Revamp you have some deep-rooted hidden dark insecurities about white women and have now begun to hate them and find them unattractive. Address your problem mate and there is no reason why you cant find a nice looking white women attractive. There are tons of them and i completely agree with IWJ about no self-respecting man being racially exclusive.

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Hot Mega said:

Well, if you don't date males you don't date males. But if you are attracted to females and not males that makes you heterosexual. If it amounted to a decision (which I don't think those tend to) then it would be a sexist decision. As a decision based solely on sex is academically 'sexist'.

Again...that doesn't mean you're a bigot. Just that your decision apparently trends primarily on the basis of race.

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Revamp said:

Lets put it like this

if I saw a White girl with Black hair, brown eyes and tanned to yellowish skin, I would date and marry her, but those features are uncommon (largely uncommon) among White women

I see nothing wrong with having preferences, we have preferences as to how we sleep, what we eat, what we watch, what we hear, what we worship so why not a preference as to who we date or marry?

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xfire said:

Don't give in to the pressure, Revamp. I can only imagine how hard it must be to have to tell all the white women that want you that you just can not. Be strong.

:1orglaugh

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xfire said:

Don't give in to the pressure, Revamp. I can only imagine how hard it must be to have to tell all the white women that want you that you just can not. Be strong.

:1orglaugh

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what a troll.
i swear your sole purpose on this board is to start shit with people.
you want to agitate , then get a response, then agitate some more.
you should ask yourself why.

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I find that it is against a norm in the US to say you are not attracted to White people. One Asian girl I know said that and people were on her like the ravens defense on a power runningback.

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Revamp said:

I find that it is against a norm in the US to say you are not attracted to White people.

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Revamp said:

I find that it is against a norm in the US to say you are not attracted to White people. One Asian girl I know said that and people were on her like the ravens defense on a power runningback.

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xfire said:

Ok, so I take it you're not originally from the U.S., then? I'm curious as to how this topic comes up in normal conversation.

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Revamp said:

I am not attracted to White girls and will not date, marry or screw one. It is just that simple. I have a mind, I don't screw every chick I can. I have standards and preferences, and heck there isn't anything people can do to change them so why do I get flak for having them in real life?

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Hot Mega said:

Fair enough vamp...I guess what confuses me is the necessity to say it one way or the other.

Now I can see maybe friends or even family asking about it at some point but I would expect maybe your friends to accept your personal preference...maybe even a little more than family. But how would the subject come up otherwise?

I mean, if a chick is barking up your tree and she happens to be white and you are ergo not into her...I can think of a billion ways to make that point to her without ever revealing she's not my personal taste.

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Rey C. said:

Where you confused me is when you asked if some girl (can't remember her name now) was mixed. I'm not trying to give you a hard time. I just don't understand what you mean. When you say, "White", do you mean girls of the Caucasian race or girls with fair skin?

Please answer this and at least I'll have some idea of what you mean. You meet a girl from Brazil. She's mixed with every race known to mankind, but she has very fair skin and blonde hair. You meet another girl from Brazil, also of mixed race, but she has olive skin and dark hair. Neither is really Caucasian, but one has more of a "White appearance" than the other. Let's throw in that girl from Sicily that you or someone mentioned. She also has olive skin and dark hair. She is Caucasian (despite all the speculation and rumors about Moors and wayward Roman women) - but she does not have a "White appearance".

The question is, when you pick one of these girls are you going to base it on their DNA... or their skin tone/appearance?

If you care to answer, that might help me, if no one else. Thanks.

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Revamp said:

Appearance of course. Like Selena Sahara or Selen, she looks hot in some videos. I find her attractive because in some videos she doesn't really look that "White".

Another one is Emanuelle Chirqui. Caucasian is the wrong word since Indians and Middle Eastern people are Cauacasian too.

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Rey C. said:

I used the word "Caucasian" for clarity's sake, because that is an actual race. "White" could indicate any number of things. But OK, I (think I) can better understand where you're coming from now: you're just basically not attracted to fair skinned females. Is that it? See, if that's it then it doesn't matter if this girl or that girl is mixed with some other race or not. Why ask if Jayden James (or any other girl) is mixed? That's the part that threw me off. Knowing the answer to that won't cause her skin pigmentation to darken or lighten, right?

Just on appearance, I generally prefer Latina (or Latin-looking) girls. I like dark hair, dark eyes, olive complexions, etc. But like I said, the girl I'm with now probably fits your definition of "White". I'm at a stage of my life now where I try to look below the surface instead of picking & choosing JUST based on appearance. You're at the very early stages of your adult life. My guess is, you'll learn many lessons as you walk the path. :hatsoff:

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